See such a philosophy "mentality destiny", I.
I remember new society, with a somewhat naive fantasy, has too many ideal and ambition, opinionated think always can find a ideal job. Which is a real place, with my record of formal schooling and ability, can't fulfill a wish. Fleeting youth not allow we use too much time to drain, what parents think we should learn some life's benefit, to make our own plans for the future. Finally in the arrangement of the parents on learning boring, challenging technical work.
Want to give up in front of the problem of work for several times, I confused, helpless. Sometimes even complain that their parents, feel life sometimes really very helpless, lose the direction and goals in life, agitated and the entire people. Why parents don't let myself to choose my favorite job. Then gradually understand, parents suffered no skills to find a job at the hands of the difficulties, they don't want to see their children's skills in society in the future, floated to the society, get the eye, life distress. Persistence and well-meaning parents, let me understand the life was not plain sailing, life is full of thorns and lost. See you with the mentality of how to treat them. Positive attitude will help you in adversity comes to face, positive change. "Rush past the front is a piece of day" this sentence make sense. Yeah! Negative state of mind can only let us waste time doing nothing. Why don't you up in spirits and make such an arrangement is meant to be, so you will not be too pessimistic, to hone their in adversity.
Just hold this attitude, this profession has been accompanied by my past 10 years, along the way will certainly encounter setbacks and helpless, but not at the beginning so pessimistic, I hold positive attitude, believe that could not sill. As this is the test of life.
I treat life with a common heart to treat, regardless of rank and riches and honour all the lighter. Adult we should take a positive attitude to instill our children, with a heart of understanding and tolerance to treat from the bitter days came and have a certain gap with our parents. People always have a loss and trouble, there are some things endure a endure seasky, don't need to care too much. We can't change others, change environment, but can change yourself, in fact, between people is not too big difference, the real difference is that a state of mind.
A person's birth is unable to choose, but life in our own hands. Mind is a magic and powerful strength, all-powerful, indomitable spirit, can turn things around, make itself avenue, decadent, magic!
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